Tuesday, December 3, 2013

The Grief Journey

I have not posted anything here for quite some time.  Just wanted to let you all know that I am still here... having my okay days and my not-so-okay days as well.  Today has been one of those difficult days.  I think it is the holiday season that is making the sadness and loneliness feel so overwhelming. 

I am attending Grief Share support meetings at my church.  We meet every Monday evening for 2 hours.  We see a video and then we discuss the subject matter of the video.   Each week we look into a different phase of grief.  The sessions are all faith-based as we refer to what the Bible has to say about grief and leads us to the scriptures that offer peace and comfort as we all are making this journey through our grief. 

Our "human-ness" is still very real and present, though, as we go through our grief.  It is my daily prayer that God will get me through today --- one day at a time. 

I am asking that you please keep me in your prayers.  I miss Arnie more than I can even express and I will always love him.  He has left an impression in the lives of everyone who knew him.  We are all better people because he was and still is a part of our lives - and we should not deny that, but we should realize that and live with that, even though there is grief and sadness because he is gone. 

I had a wonderful Thanksgiving day - thanks to my wonderful and loving family who gathered at my house so that we could all be together for the Holiday.



Again, I ask that you please keep me and my family in your prayers.  Please let me hear from you - I love reading your comments and / or emails. 

4 comments:

  1. Mom, you are doing just what you should be doing-praying for strength, taking one day at a time, and living your day to day life just the way Dad would want you to. We love you so very much and we are so proud of you. I know it is hard for you and that you miss Dad and everything about him. We all miss him and always will.

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  2. Sharon, you have such a wonderful family. I know you know it. But please believe that it is obvious to everyone else too. You and Arnie did a super job raising them. When I look at the picture of you and Arnie, it's hard to believe that he won't be over here again. That hurts. But it's also comforting to just see the man we respected and were fortunate to call a friend. As always, we are here for you. Anytime.
    PS: great pictures!
    Diana & Tom

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  3. Sharon , i am always praying for you & family to go threw each day with God's guidance to help. God Bless & Love you Honey Lou

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